things to talk about on first dates - Page 14

NicRN77 · #**391** 11-02-2009, 01:47 PM

If a guy I was dating told me he was a virgin I think I'd be a little scared. Like wondering WHY he hasn't had sex yet. What's wrong with him?

hpdrifter · #**392** 11-02-2009, 01:53 PM

I met a guy once that I subsequently found out was a virgin. He was 22, I think I was 21 or 22. He was in the military and he was cute and stuff. But I guess I just wasn't feeling the whole virgin thing. Probably because at that point I think I'd only slept with one person so I figured it'd be a little like the blind leading the the blind.

Dorothy Wood · #**393** 11-02-2009, 02:06 PM

Bob's not a virgin.

and anyway, I don't think I'd be turned off or on by the idea of sleeping with a virgin. I guess I might have trouble starting a relationship or something, because I'd be afraid that the guy would think he was missing out on his oats sewing.

Echewta · #**394** 11-02-2009, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by hpdrifter

oh for cryin out loud, just answer the question.

Besides being more understanding and patient, I wouldn't have a problem sleeping with someone in that situation.

Guy Incognito · #**395** 11-02-2009, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Echewta

Besides being more understanding and patient, I wouldn't have a problem sleeping with someone in that situation.

yeah same here,but i think i would feel a little weird finding out afterwards, i would prefer to know before hand

Echewta · #**396** 11-02-2009, 04:57 PM

You would use your hand differently?

Guy Incognito · #**397** 11-02-2009, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Echewta

You would use your hand differently?

LOL if i am doing that then its hands

RobMoney$ · #**398** 11-02-2009, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by hpdrifter

Guys, if it were the other way round, would you be into it?

LOLZ, it's only like every guys' fantasy.

Islamic extremists commit acts of terror and suicide for the promise of 70 virgins in the afterlife.

rirv · #**399** 11-02-2009, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by hpdrifter

I've never been into the idea but... well whatever.

Guys, if it were the other way round, would you be into it?

Tbh, I reckon it would be pretty awful sleeping with a virgin.

They'd be young, which at my age now is starting to get a little bit creepy.
OR
They were waiting for that "special someone" so are probably highly emotional and would cry afterwards.
OR
There was another reason they were a virgin, like they smelled bad or were a psychopath or were morbidly obese.
AND
To top it off they'd probably lie there like a log and pull a pained expression during the whole ordeal.

hpdrifter · #**400** 11-02-2009, 05:50 PM

Apparently not every guy.

yeahwho · #**401** 11-02-2009, 05:51 PM

I don't think I could sleep with a virgin, but I could sleep with a girl from the Virgin Islands.

rirv · #**402** 11-02-2009, 05:53 PM

This discussion is virgin on the ridiculous.

lolkat · #**403** 11-02-2009, 05:54 PM

robmoney$ u sick fuck

hpdrifter · #**404** 11-02-2009, 06:00 PM

I think rirv just killed this thread.

rirv · #**405** 11-02-2009, 06:01 PM

As long as we don't kill Bob's boner.

Imagine getting cockblocked by the internet.

yeahwho · #**406** 11-02-2009, 06:01 PM

...or maybe a girl from Virginia, as long as she has a vagina. Maybe a girl with a vagina from West Virginia.

Echewta · #**407** 11-02-2009, 06:02 PM

Why do girls cry after sex? I've never had that happen unless Im wearing my boxers with onions on them. You can never be to careful about vampires, including during the sexing.

rirv · #**408** 11-02-2009, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by yeahwho

...or maybe a girl from Virginia, as long as she has a vagina. Maybe a girl with a vagina from West Virginia.

WHAT'S HER NAME? VIRGINIA PLAIN.

yeahwho · #**409** 11-02-2009, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by rirv

As long as we don't kill Bob's boner.

Imagine getting cockblocked by the internet.

All bob has to do to keep from having pre-mature ejaculation during his first sexual encounter with this date is reflect back on this thread...

but you're probably right if he thinks about it beforehand he may be unable to perform.

yeahwho · #**410** 11-02-2009, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by RobMoney$

LOLZ, it's only like every guys' fantasy.

Islamic extremists commit acts of terror and suicide for the promise of 70 virgins in the afterlife.

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Originally Posted by lolkat

robmoney$ u sick fuck

yeah Rob, you must really like the extra extra virgin olive oil

Myu-to · #**411** 11-02-2009, 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Dorothy Wood

Bob's not a virgin.

And how do you know this?

hpdrifter · #**412** 11-03-2009, 12:35 PM

So what happened to the play by play? Has date number three happened? Was there a kiss? Sexy time? Bob has not provided an update in days!

Adam · #**413** 11-03-2009, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by hpdrifter

So what happened to the play by play? Has date number three happened? Was there a kiss? Sexy time? Bob has not provided an update in days!

Like any new relationship, what do you do for the first few weeks? Fuck all the time! So I think we can assume that is what is going off.

When any1 disappears from this board unexpectedly its either; new romance, new job, drafted or jail. I doubt its the last two but the first two are a possibility

Dorothy Wood · #**414** 11-03-2009, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Myu-to

And how do you know this?

I raped him.

Bob · #**415** 11-03-2009, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by hpdrifter

So what happened to the play by play? Has date number three happened? Was there a kiss? Sexy time? Bob has not provided an update in days!

nothing new yet. i called her sunday, we talked for 15 minutes about friendly chatty things and made a date for wednesday

but there is something that's bothering me, and it's stupid and it's hopefully nothing but all the same i can't get it out of my head and it's just sort of picking at it. some time between when i called her sunday and now, she updated her okcupid profile with stuff that to me makes it sound like she's trying to get more dudes to message her. she changed the "six things i could never live without" section to list six things she could never do without in a man (and i meet like 5 out of 6 but still, that wasn't there before) and the "you should message me if" section to say "no 'if', it's a dating website, no pressure", and i'm well sure that wasn't there before

it's stupid and also the internet and i feel like a lameo for dwelling on it but all the same it is bugging me a little. maybe it doesn't mean anything. or maybe it means she's dating other dudes at the same time. or wants to. maybe that's how dating works, i guess i hadn't thought about it that hard. that's annoying, if true, it's starting to feel more like a callback interview than a date

Adam · #**416** 11-03-2009, 04:12 PM

she ain't yours yet.

Let it go, don't dwell - just you may have to work a little harder. I know dudes here will say they bone every girl on the first date but it'll take as many dates as it takes and it'll be a natural progression. If she doesn't want to see you she'll stop making arrangements with you. Or make them and not turn up - no sign of that yet so all good

Bob · #**417** 11-03-2009, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Adam

she ain't yours yet.

Let it go, don't dwell - just you may have to work a little harder. I know dudes here will say they bone every girl on the first date but it'll take as many dates as it takes and it'll be a natural progression. If she doesn't want to see you she'll stop making arrangements with you. Or make them and not turn up - no sign of that yet so all good

yeah i reckon that's true. i just hadn't thought to think very hard about it until now

Guy Incognito · #**418** 11-03-2009, 04:16 PM

yep, what adam said, just be yourself, try hard but dont try too hard , sounds like you should just do what you have been doing, its working, dont let any conspiracy theories you have influence you, just forget about all that.

Bob · #**419** 11-03-2009, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Guy Incognito

yep, what adam said, just be yourself, try hard but dont try too hard , sounds like you should just do what you have been doing, its working, dont let any conspiracy theories you have influence you, just forget about all that.

yeah i kind of wish i'd never noticed it honestly. well, more that i wish she'd never wrote it but i'd have settled for not noticing it. oh well, whatever i was doing before seems to have been working so i'll just keep doing it

Guy Incognito · #**420** 11-03-2009, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Bob

yeah i kind of wish i'd never noticed it honestly. well, more that i wish she'd never wrote it but i'd have settled for not noticing it. oh well, whatever i was doing before seems to have been working so i'll just keep doing it

dude, dont worry about she might have meant by it, you could spend all your life with this woman and there will be many times you wont be entirely sure what she means. If there is an issue you will find out about it so dont sweat it.

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